After enough temptation yesterday :D I want to say congratulate to my friend who accepted in USM for her Ph.D , and i don't forget to congratulate "miss-bilateral-relationship"
Ahahahhahaha...
Actually this is about my friend who just getting into relationship :)
I was guessed before (they were flirting in front of me) , so now.. they announce their relationship. I wonder how to cross the communication border between them, different nationality, language, principle . . . hmmm...
I am not a good communicator, i live in my own dream of heroic action, unexpressed feeling, and suddenly-become-romantic :D
I broke up officially . . . after several other official broke up from my firefly. I couldn't understand myself and her and this feeling anymore. I lost my way when i try to find it. Going back to communication, do you know i can read people mind and feeling deeper than what they express . . :D
I learn psychology but actually i apply those things in my life directly. In my culture which always full of implicit content and action i learn how to read people. More or less i also become implicit person in context of my mind and in communication. It help me to hide behind the mirror, not because i am scare or can't communicate but i want to learn how people react.
I realize only some of them can exactly understand and know what i want to say. People who are stay at the same level of understanding with me, so nice :D
Again return to communication, how to build up a good communication actually? Communication is important skill to build up and maintain relationship. It is honesty and courage. Implicitly i alway say the truth, express my feeling and say it, implicitly (i always scare if i give direct hit since i am not a good communicator, miss understanding can happen easily). Truth always difficult to accepted by most of the people, you don't believe me . . . Here simple test :
1. you do something bad in people opinion without no one notice it
2. you shout out and say to everybody you done something bad
Their reaction at the first time will say, "Really ?", "Is it true ?". If you are a good guy , like me, no one will believe you do something bad in another way if you always do bad things, people will not believe you say you do bad things :)
Yeah.. i know truth is very hard to believe and accept :D That is our live now, where people keep lying each other, use their mask to talk with others, we lie to ourselves.
Do you think I lie ?? :)
